The SEX Question....

The Taboo Top(eek)Nah...nothing is really taboo in Jeny's Closet. Except for politics.So, yes todays top(eek) is SEX.The Sex Question…..Should you delay having sex with the new guy you've been seeing? Will it help or hurt your chances of building a serious relationship? How long should you make him suffer? Sex is an important component of any romantic relationship, and when you start doing it can determine whether the relationship works or not. There are lots of consequences to sleeping with a man you just met, especially if you like him on an emotional level and hope to make him a permanent fixture in your life. Here are a few suggestions on how long you should delay having sex with a man.In recent decades, casual sex has become more common...

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Latest (Peeks) from Jeny's Closet

Jeny’s Closet latest Collections**I reckon we might need to get a bigger closet soon to store all the new dresses we’ve been (peeking) lately plus with all the secrets Jeny has been hiding? Jeny’s Closet can never be big enough.**Jeny’s Closet latest collection is here so babes take your (peek). The range is as exotic as it is beautiful and it ranges from work wear to club wear to beach wear. I love the range of dresses and how versatile it is. You can wear the short dresses on its own (if you have the legs for it, flaunt it) or pair it with a nice pair of jeans or pants (Think booty). No dress is too short or too long and it fits and flatters like all body types and I mean we even have plus size.The dress above is my top (peek) of the lot....

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From Friend to Girlfriend...Tried and Tested Methods

Another (Peek) from Jeny's Closet.Friend to Girlfriend...Ways and Steps...I am particularly dear to male friends who always struggle to get the girl they want. Especially when the girls told them that they only see them as FRIENDS.So here I explore some ways (tried and tested) I have used many times in guiding my dear male friends to finally get their girl and which I know has worked so well for many of them.The fine line between a girl friend and a girlfriend lies in sexual attraction and flirting. If you haven't done some things to cause them to think sexual feelings about you, then most likely you will remain as their friend. Then again, do not come out of the blue and tell her you love her. That might make her feel as if you are too committed...

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How to get Bruce Lee's body without the Gym

Jeny's Icon (Peek) of the Day. Look what comes out of the closet.“Empty your mind, be formless, shapeless – like water. Now you put water into a cup, it becomes the cup, you put water into a bottle, it becomes the bottle, you put it in a teapot, it becomes the teapot. Now water can flow or it can crash. Be water, my friend.” – Bruce LeeI know writing about Bruce Lee may be a little inappropriate for Jeny's Closet. But I have always admired him for his determination & drive in attaining his short lived success that people talked about in many years to come. Check out his book "Bruce Lee - The Art of Expressing the Human Body". That dude has Fitness issues. Besides, babes if you only do only 5% of what Bruce Lee did...that "made for sinning"...

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Can Friends Become Lovers?

What is Jeny hiding in her closet this time? Today's To(Peek)Should Friends Become Lovers?Long before the days of “When Harry Met Sally,” experts, scholars, and common folks engaged in dialogue and debate over whether men and women could be “just friends”.And, in a similar vein, many have questioned whether it is ever really wise to cross the line, and go from friend to lover.This topic is particularly dear to my heart, in that I am going through it right now so from time to time I do occasionally have to cross that line between deciding for Friendship or Relationship.Because I greatly value their role in my life, I’ve pretty much always stuck to a “no fraternization rule”. If we started out as friends, that’s how we’d stay to the end. True...

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Posted in: Nomad Philosophy,Relationships

Today's TO(Peek) - The Lost Art of Solitude

“I never found the companion that was so companionable as solitude. We are for the most part more lonely when we go abroad among men than when we stay in our chambers.” ~Henry David ThoreauYou don’t need to be a monk to find solitude, nor do you need to be a hermit to enjoy it.Solitude is a lost art in these days of ultra-connectedness, and while I don’t bemoan the beauty of this global community, I do think there’s a need to step back from it on a regular basis.Some of my favorite activities include sitting in front of the ocean, still, contemplating … walking, alone with my thoughts … disconnecting and just writing … finding quiet with a good novel … taking a solitary bath.Don’t get me wrong: I love being with loved ones, and walking with...

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How to be a positive person in under 300 words

‘Henceforth I ask not good-fortune, I myself am good-fortune.’ ~Walt Whitman I’m a pretty positive person — I consider it one of the keys to the modest success I’ve had in creating new habits and achieving things in the last few years. Positive thinking, as trite as it seems, has changed my life. I’m not going to sell you on it, but if you’re interested, here’s the condensed guide to changing your own life: Realize it’s possible, instead of telling yourself why you can’t. Become aware of your self-talk. Squash negative thoughts like a bug. Replace them with positive thoughts. Love what you have already. Be grateful for your life, your gifts, and other people, Every day. Focus on what you have, not on what you haven’t. Don’t compare yourself...

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